You can make sure that you have good locks, that no-one can see right in your windows, that you are careful over the Internet & what you say. In my early employment days, I went for an interview where the owner said 'Be careful what you say, because there are people here who pry.' I recently broke contact with someone I'd known for years. She acted as though incompetent in her own life, while fixating on me and anyone I ever mentioned, forgetting nothing. She was stringing along professional helpers who liked and supported her, but reinforced her helplessness till it was too late: It seems more likely she was the 'professional player'. It felt I was being goaded for playground sport, as happens on social media with a vengeance. Bullying can be subtle or covert, sometimes a way of grooming.
The person feels they can behave as they wish, while implying no-one can do anything: They are useful to the workplace, or not well, elderly, vulnerable, can't handle a challenge or row. My guess is I am now being put-down to others as the new name-of-the-game. Why would I not gently say something? People need their defence mechanisms, but one doesn't have to collude with them, and in my view to do so is inappropriate. In a work setting you may have to grin & bear some things, but try to maintain boundaries. Teamwork and seamlessness are not my favourite words. In some jobs you are never expected to draw a line. Is that a con? Organisations that focus inwards are more likely to go to the wall. My contact who focussed on the minutiae of my life, made it harder for me to get on with more important issues. When this happens in workplaces, it's like fiddling while Rome burns. You can watch employees who actually seem to want the organisation to go to the wall, and you along with.
Hint: If you go for a job interview or similar, and they harp on about behaviour or inadequacies of your predecessor, or how quickly they were shown the door... be careful, though naturally different people fit into different slots. The same sort of thing applies when someone you think pretty decent, makes snide comments about other people, or their inadequacies, not just once but often.
Watch out for infringement of your boundaries. Sometimes others form a kind of 'unholy alliance' to undermine others. Quite why reasonably attractive people, in good health, capable, in employment, having apparently good relationships, living in nice homes, find it necessary in any way to target people who are less fortunate, is a mystery! I guess it harks back to playground days. Maybe it just follows what appears to be the line of least resistance - until that fights back, or simply ignores it.
If you juggle several aspects about something or someone, you will see the mosaic before others. If you feel uneasy, you can only do your best to fulfil a role. Find a way to withdraw if you need to. People can maintain a camouflage for a very long time. Sometimes an obsession develops and settles on you. Occasionally a perceptive other person sees it and backs you up, but usually it is down to you to pick up the pieces. The simplest way to describe some of this is 'living vicariously' through someone else, which is a natural part of life so long as it doesn't go too far over boundaries and become oppressive. Relationships take many forms, and we usually settle on getting along with some leeway. You may manage to renegotiate, or you may not.
If you are being stalked physically or emotionally, or something like it happens online, there are useful books on Amazon, and anti-stalking advice online. Stalking is an obsession. It can be dangerous, and you need to be careful. Don't engage.
If you are in a situation of domestic violence, get good advice. Also explore coercive control.
If you become the target of an emotional, underhanded onslaught from someone, take steps to protect yourself and your home the best ways you can. If you feel more comfortable with, say, rabbit or dinosaur ornaments on the shelf, try it. Some things seem to work without being part of an ideological framework. (Maybe that is why they do.) Get curtains you like, or some material to drape over. Work on your own environment, learning as you do. What I can tell you, is it will puzzle them when their antics don't work. I liken it to pulling down the shutters and closing up shop.
No more deals possible.
Invasive Technology
Anyone interested in biological/technical methods of control, please go to revised Blog https://doubledstandards.blogspot.com and scroll to Invasive Technology.
Most pages have a selection of relevant books that you may not have come across, including on coronavirus, End Times, mind control - what we're calling Mindcluk, cuckooing of the mind.
See also Mind Invasive Tech at https://invasivetech.blogspot.com where links to many researchers appear in the top panel.
December 2021
Blog on things to try to shield yourself & your environment from possible effects of 5G, EMF is now up at
An important Footnote: A pretty young woman walked up to me at a meeting, and said she needed advice on controlling her mind. For some reason I asked if she meant herself, or someone else doing it to her. Quick as a flash, a 90-year old gentleman nearby said 'Someone has built a bridge towards you, and you need to find how to stop him.'
Is it something in my stars that I've been at the butt end of people's weirdness, and have collected snippets along the way? The psychic friend who did my chart gave more advice. I am not psychic, but had bought things at a sale and one made me uncomfortable. My friend, who one might think would never allow random items within a mile, said 'I shove things in a strong black binbag and tie the top.' Several books I ordered that gave off the same feeling, were relegated straight to the shed. So don't necessarily think you must be imagining things, or cannot do anything about them.
Did you ever prepare to get to an event or to meet someone, get halfway there or right to the door, and turn around? Or fall asleep and miss the train? Sometimes one hears about what happened there, and thanks those 'lucky stars'.
You may have reached this page in the hope of finding some strategy to help you through a dire personal situation. My best advice is to try to avoid getting drawn into relationships or activities that could turn problematic. I know things can happen very fast, but keep a weather eye open, ready to extract yourself. People tried to involve me in an occult group that advertised in a London newspaper. Other times I attended various introductory lectures, and held discussion groups. More than one person warned me about other activities that some members engaged in. So be careful. Not everything/everyone are as they seem, and you may be happy with some things but not others. Reading the work of authors who got more deeply involved and 'duped', they seem to take an avoidance path, cutting themselves off from those people, rather than confronting them. When running our own groups, the next couple of dates were given out, but no further into the future than that.
To load all of this Blog onto one page, go to https://notincharacter.blogspot.com
Link to Cultures or Cults: Do They Hypnotise Us? https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_10.html
For more on Souls, crime, groups, heredity, skip to
Full Circle: Wrapping Things Up https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_54.html
There are indications that emotional suffering such as from bullying, ostracism, shunning, rejection, or breakup of a love affair, can cause people to feel as they would with physical pain. The physiological indications are very similar. See the work of Professor Kipling Williams.
Shunning is used in cults to keep people in line. It causes a great deal of pain, splitting up families and isolating people. Scientology calls their version of showing disapproval and causing punishment 'Fair Game', words which have become common in describing vengeance. Is it a fair route to follow? Is it worth it?
Tabs at the top link to information on some subjects touched on in this Blog, and to Tim Field's bullying site Bully Online, which includes in the Workplace.
Is it something in my stars that I've been at the butt end of people's weirdness, and have collected snippets along the way? The psychic friend who did my chart gave more advice. I am not psychic, but had bought things at a sale and one made me uncomfortable. My friend, who one might think would never allow random items within a mile, said 'I shove things in a strong black binbag and tie the top.' Several books I ordered that gave off the same feeling, were relegated straight to the shed. So don't necessarily think you must be imagining things, or cannot do anything about them.
Did you ever prepare to get to an event or to meet someone, get halfway there or right to the door, and turn around? Or fall asleep and miss the train? Sometimes one hears about what happened there, and thanks those 'lucky stars'.
You may have reached this page in the hope of finding some strategy to help you through a dire personal situation. My best advice is to try to avoid getting drawn into relationships or activities that could turn problematic. I know things can happen very fast, but keep a weather eye open, ready to extract yourself. People tried to involve me in an occult group that advertised in a London newspaper. Other times I attended various introductory lectures, and held discussion groups. More than one person warned me about other activities that some members engaged in. So be careful. Not everything/everyone are as they seem, and you may be happy with some things but not others. Reading the work of authors who got more deeply involved and 'duped', they seem to take an avoidance path, cutting themselves off from those people, rather than confronting them. When running our own groups, the next couple of dates were given out, but no further into the future than that.
Protect Yourself
To load all of this Blog onto one page, go to https://notincharacter.blogspot.com
Link to Cultures or Cults: Do They Hypnotise Us? https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_10.html
For more on Souls, crime, groups, heredity, skip to
Full Circle: Wrapping Things Up https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_54.html
There are indications that emotional suffering such as from bullying, ostracism, shunning, rejection, or breakup of a love affair, can cause people to feel as they would with physical pain. The physiological indications are very similar. See the work of Professor Kipling Williams.
Shunning is used in cults to keep people in line. It causes a great deal of pain, splitting up families and isolating people. Scientology calls their version of showing disapproval and causing punishment 'Fair Game', words which have become common in describing vengeance. Is it a fair route to follow? Is it worth it?
Tabs at the top link to information on some subjects touched on in this Blog, and to Tim Field's bullying site Bully Online, which includes in the Workplace.
Also see the work of Joe Navarro on 'Dangerous Personalities'.
For more resources & links on Memory & Bad Therapy visit Middlegroundable page https://middlegroundable.blogspot.com/2012/01/blog-post_9097.html
To see the rest of this Blog, go to https://notincharacter.blogspot.com
This Site continues some themes from a collective Blog of 10 years ago, which is still up at https://toukanalia.blogspot.com
Are We All a Bit Psychic?
I've always thought I am not, but recall instances in workaday life,
walking into a room where people have been talking about me, and my
knowing it. Or it is like someone cut the room down the middle with a
knife. When we put our house up for sale and someone walked round in our
absence, I could feel their antagonism. I certainly don't always get
things right. In a practical sense, it can save you hassle. Sitting on a
train with my thoughts all over the place, I became aware of a man
opposite who kept pulling at his leather gloves, and it was like him
boring a hole into my calf. I shot off the train at the next station and
belted along the platform to another carriage. Admittedly it was at a
time when women were being attacked on London trains.
Some people can lull me into feeling that they are fine to be with, which can turn out very wrong. At times I reacted badly to someone at work, then formed a friendship with them after leaving. I had a knack of knowing if someone was good at art or something, or walking into a bookshop and heading straight for something, hardly looking before buying. I had a psychic friend I called Mr. O. He said he was always a material person, very active till his fifties, when he realised he could heal people with his hands. He used to charge up tissues just passing them through his hands, and sent them to people. His first thought was always what someone else might need. He and some friends formed a group which met at a particular time weekly to send out healing. One day, for some reason like appalling weather, they could not meet, and the recipient group asked 'What happened? We could not feel anything.' He was very good with people's photos, picking up pets that had passed on, even if they were not in the picture at all.
I was fascinated by people with a psychic sense, and the idea that if, for instance one had an idea or a problem, someone might be able to sense it, or actually see it hanging around. There may be people with a certain physical or psychological make-up that enables others to pick up things that they've been brooding about, or they may be sensitive enough to suss things out about us. If we could see it ourselves, we'd understand what we were sensing - it might actually 'be there'. I went to a student meeting on a course I was embarking on, in a lovely basement room in someone's home. I tried not to be put off by her husband having a skull on one of the shelves, but what struck me more was the furniture giving off something that was not just a smell of polish. Fortunately we never went back there.
Below is a rather scary image of a book:
If you search around you can download a free .pdf version with drawings
that make it more meaningful. Some of it is along the lines of the
Leadbeater book on thoughtforms, emotions and so on. It could be that
there are collections of energy either in someone's aura, or present
nearby, or linked, that we actually are reacting to as if we could see
them with ordinary sight. Another avenue to look at is things like
entities or servitors, that are created with a specific task to perform.
How do we know that some people don't just do this automatically to
fulfil a need, without ever opening a magic book? It's my belief this happens more than we know.
Some families have strong traditions, and may have violent emotions. It sometimes seems these pass from generation to generation, with positive or negative consequences, having significant effects on those they come in contact with. It is not at a conscious level, and therefore may be more powerful, so the impact on others can be very much like a deliberate curse. OK, so you don't believe in them, but wait till you meet something otherwise inexplicable! Then start looking to some form of protection.
Next, I draw your attention to author Mark Stavish. He is an esoteric writer and has a YouTube channel, but is able to explain things in a way that ordinary folks can understand. He writes about egregores, or group-minds of various kinds What interested me is his little book on polgergeists and obsessions, with sections on other authors whose work I had turned to in an attempt to get an inkling. I also have a thing about protecting oneself, and he has another book on that.
There seem to be situations and people, where none of the usual ideas work to explain things, or to improve them for someone, or for oneself. I don't believe in messing about in things I do not understand, but unless we consider some things outside-the-box, we will never learn.
Bear with me while I digress some more: Some writers are into Earth energies and so on, and one would have to be pretty hard-nosed not to consider that these, plus Planetary energies or configurations could explain some of the otherwise inexplicable.
See What About Forensic Astrology? at https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_33.html
To get back to where this all started:
Are we effectively 'cuckooed' by other people's needs, conscious or not? Do they somehow infiltrate some of our own brain (or other) circuits, so that we don't really know what to think for a while? Is this how cults work? or coercive situations like scams, or fraudulent relationships? See recent tweet -
Some people can lull me into feeling that they are fine to be with, which can turn out very wrong. At times I reacted badly to someone at work, then formed a friendship with them after leaving. I had a knack of knowing if someone was good at art or something, or walking into a bookshop and heading straight for something, hardly looking before buying. I had a psychic friend I called Mr. O. He said he was always a material person, very active till his fifties, when he realised he could heal people with his hands. He used to charge up tissues just passing them through his hands, and sent them to people. His first thought was always what someone else might need. He and some friends formed a group which met at a particular time weekly to send out healing. One day, for some reason like appalling weather, they could not meet, and the recipient group asked 'What happened? We could not feel anything.' He was very good with people's photos, picking up pets that had passed on, even if they were not in the picture at all.
I was fascinated by people with a psychic sense, and the idea that if, for instance one had an idea or a problem, someone might be able to sense it, or actually see it hanging around. There may be people with a certain physical or psychological make-up that enables others to pick up things that they've been brooding about, or they may be sensitive enough to suss things out about us. If we could see it ourselves, we'd understand what we were sensing - it might actually 'be there'. I went to a student meeting on a course I was embarking on, in a lovely basement room in someone's home. I tried not to be put off by her husband having a skull on one of the shelves, but what struck me more was the furniture giving off something that was not just a smell of polish. Fortunately we never went back there.
Below is a rather scary image of a book:
Some families have strong traditions, and may have violent emotions. It sometimes seems these pass from generation to generation, with positive or negative consequences, having significant effects on those they come in contact with. It is not at a conscious level, and therefore may be more powerful, so the impact on others can be very much like a deliberate curse. OK, so you don't believe in them, but wait till you meet something otherwise inexplicable! Then start looking to some form of protection.
Next, I draw your attention to author Mark Stavish. He is an esoteric writer and has a YouTube channel, but is able to explain things in a way that ordinary folks can understand. He writes about egregores, or group-minds of various kinds What interested me is his little book on polgergeists and obsessions, with sections on other authors whose work I had turned to in an attempt to get an inkling. I also have a thing about protecting oneself, and he has another book on that.
There seem to be situations and people, where none of the usual ideas work to explain things, or to improve them for someone, or for oneself. I don't believe in messing about in things I do not understand, but unless we consider some things outside-the-box, we will never learn.
Bear with me while I digress some more: Some writers are into Earth energies and so on, and one would have to be pretty hard-nosed not to consider that these, plus Planetary energies or configurations could explain some of the otherwise inexplicable.
See What About Forensic Astrology? at https://notincharacter.blogspot.com/2019/01/blog-post_33.html
To get back to where this all started:
Are we effectively 'cuckooed' by other people's needs, conscious or not? Do they somehow infiltrate some of our own brain (or other) circuits, so that we don't really know what to think for a while? Is this how cults work? or coercive situations like scams, or fraudulent relationships? See recent tweet -
Is stalking a kind of scam, a cuckooing of one's life?
Do Cults work by cuckooing the mind, the soul?
Watch where you place your trust!
Update at Groups, Minds & Beliefs: Protection & Boundaries
groupsandminds.blogspot.com/2019/03/blog-p…
Do Cults work by cuckooing the mind, the soul?
Watch where you place your trust!
Update at Groups, Minds & Beliefs: Protection & Boundaries
groupsandminds.blogspot.com/2019/03/blog-p…
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